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A minhag with a mesorah...

             The    number    one    step    for

             a    stress-free    simchah

        M       aking a wedding is always     protecting  against  Eyin  Harah  is  the   Shabbos
                                                                  Aufruf
                                     correct and necessary hishtadlus for you
                an exciting and emotional
                                                                  Happy Preparations
                                     to do to make sure you can celebrate your
                time.  The  whole  family,
                mechut anim,
                grandparents,   children   simchah with peace of mind.   Warm Wishes
                                                                  Special Family-time
        and  not  to  mention  the  chassan  and   So  yes,  just  one  phone  call  to  Einey
        kallah, get pulled into the excitement as   Yeshuah    and,  like  the  hundreds  of
        they  count  down  to  that  special  day,   mechutanim  before  you,  the  real  stress
        when  they’ll  finally  be  led  under  the   and worry is over. One short phone call
        chuppah.                     and  you’re  registered  in  the  ‘’Sefer
                                     Hasimchah’’.  That’s all it takes to ensure
        The to-do list is long and detailed.  You   that  Einey  Yeshuos  has  you  and  your   Night of
        need to clothe the entire family. Furnish   family in mind with the special segulos   Chasunah
        the apartment. Buy the shtafir, plan the   and practices, all based on solid tradition.
        logistics  of  the  chasunah,  organize  the              Pure Pleasure
        sheva berachas and...  the list never really   And, as you move forward,  from the   Excited Festivity
        finishes. You try to think of every detail.    first  exhilarating  moments  of  Joyful Gratitude
        You take note of every advice shared by   anticipation as you bring in Shabbos
        your family and friends. You daven and   Aufruf, until that satisfied  sigh of
        hope that everything goes well and your   nachas and sheer gratitude at the last
        simchah will be a ‘simchah with simchah’.   sheva  berachos,  you’ll  have  the
        You flip through every sefer for segulos   calmness and serenity of knowing that
        that   ‘guarantee’   you   more   Siyata   you’ve done your part in bringing this   Sheva
                                                         maya
        dishmaya.  Is there something more  you   extra protection  and siyata dishmaya   Brachos
        can do, you wonder?          to your special occasion.
                                                                  Calm Celebration
        The answer is yes.  And                                   Comfortable Connection
        fortunately, it takes only                                Abundant Nachas
        one phone call!
        Already as far back as in the times of the
        Tashba’’tz (around 600 years ago)  we
        find a  minhag  for mechutanim to
        practice certain segulos to ward off the
        Eyin Harah (Tashbatz, Katan, Ch 464).
        Still later, the Shevet Mussar cautions
        about protecting against Eyin Harah -
        especially families of Chasan and
        Kallah! In fact, that’s  one of the reasons
        why we break a glass under the chuppah
        - to protect against any Eyin Harah that
        may be present (Ohr Hachamah).
        We  see  that  based  on  our  mesorah,



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